THIRTY-THREE

WITHDRAWAL

CONCERNS: When corrosive negative energy is gaining strength or an opposing force is greater than ours, a correct response includes the possibility of retreat; having the freedom to withdraw from a situation or a relationship is an expression of wisdom.

  1. Retreat is an early, voluntary withdrawal, made long before we are forced to flee.
  2. If you can remain balanced in your center, you will not be overcome by difficult circumstances nor create occasions for regret.
  3. Withdrawal from worldly involvement is difficult; we need to be decisive when such involvement would be dangerous. Now we should retreat to the safety of our closest relationships.
  4. We manifest our maturity when we can make a firm, unruffled withdrawal from a pleasant situation that has become compromising.
  5. A correct retreat arises from inner certainty; it is dignified, friendly and without excuses or vacillation.
  6. “Inner detachment has become an established fact, and we are at liberty to depart. When one sees the way ahead thus clearly, free of all doubt, a cheerful mood sets in, and one chooses what is right without further thought.” [1]

COMMENT: The I Ching continually teaches the truth that energies and events are guided best at their inception, before they have gained momentum and passed beyond our control. A withdrawal allows us to regroup and to return. People who do not know how to retreat do not know how to advance; they have not yet become aware of subtle cycles of energy.

 

REFERENCES

  1. ^ Wilhelm, R., & Baynes, C. F. (1977). The I Ching or Book of Changes: The Richard Wilhelm Translation Rendered Into English. (p. 132) Bollingen Series, Princeton University Press